Recently, once 13 years wished luck on moving to a new home the world richest family Internet great master Bill , Gates to announce retire, simultaneously announce the plan oneself 58,000,000,000 US dollar complete family property back coupling for the society, but are not leave him the children. Are the Chinese guardians while sighed with emotion Bill , Gates insane, also started to think deeply about such question: Is really rich cannot again the rich child? As the guardian, actually makes how many for the child is appropriatelies?
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Bill , Gates such daddy is few after all. Many Chinese guardians are discussing like this.
After all, Gates has sub-two females who not yet grows up. They were born separately in 1996, in 1999, in 2002. That is, the elementary student, by far has not been able to support oneself at present, say nothing of succeeds in one's pursuit. May be the father Bill , Gates not to leave their one point family property actually. Gates thought: Has the attaining without effort wealth, regarding the station in the life starting point's children by no means meddlesome.
Not come singly but in pairs, advances into the Forbes rich and powerful people ranking, is called Gates two th 23 year old of American boy Mark , Zach Bergh, at 20 year-old time chose on own initiative left the rich life to decide the path, organized together with the friend has let the public relations website which yahoo and google did not dare to belittle. Now, Mark still lives in a one room of hall which he rents. Said with his words, I to this ostentatious world not too many responses. I only am want to establish a long-term thing, other matters I did not care.
We knew that started themselves many foreign children to 18 years old to support itself, but 18 years old regarding the Chinese children, are the ages which the university just started, the majority children satisfiedly are also spending parents' money to study in the university. In fact the Chinese children support oneself the age not has been ahead of time now, but postponed.
The sociologists study indicated that now an only child generation after having completed a university four year study, often must attend the graduate school or go abroad to study, many children step onto social time, already had surpassed 27 years old. But in before this,baby boutique, their life often is also the parents provides. Because will look for the work difficult or initially joins a company will meet setback and so on, after graduations will not work, simply will continue the matter which will make itself to like simultaneously to gnaw old is also not infrequent.
The social scholars believed that actually gnaws never merely means after grown-up, also the life origin dependence on the parents body, another kind gnaws the cousin to hold depending on the parents the relations to look now the work, even if married the life to take care of oneself ability to be very also bad, took father and mother family belongings cafeteria and so on, but most serious gnawed old is in fact spiritually is unable the independences, did not know that besides obeyed parents' direction, how future Lu will Gai walk.
The foreigner tries to raise child's independent ability, China's parents seems has the sense of responsibility, not only need pay the school expense to the child, looks for the work, but must be responsible for child's marriage, purchases homes ......As the guardian, actually pays how many for the child is most appropriate? Reporter investigates indicated that at present China's guardian view varies: Conservative faction: Can give the child to give the child - - Qian Dugei who that many gains laboriously others? This procedure is really inconceivable. The so noble behavior left our life to be too far. Accepted the interview the majority of China's guardians to express such view. Comes off sentry duty this year Lao Wang 52 years old, the only son bright just the university graduated, had found a work very laboriously, starts to support itself reluctantly. Our old couple struggles the present, oneself only then just had a den, from now on if can accumulate a money, must leave the child.
The Lao Wang view has the representation in the economical not ample guardian, what but makes the human to feel the accident slightly is,（Related Articles20100810 speeches must keep a promise）, fashionable white-collar's new father and mother and accurate father and mother also like this looked. Young Ling in Pearl River new town's foreign enterprises, is having a considerable wages every month. Mentions this question, young Ling said without hesitation: Certainly must be able to give all gives the child. In my family the condition also calculates since childhood superiorly, present's house is also the maid for buys. Can go abroad under guardian's support completes the studies, and round trip world. I must create these conditions for my child only then the line. The young Ling's husband Arab League China also like this looked: Will not create a better condition for the child, the child will blame us irresponsibly!
Middle-of-the-roaders: Must remain, but do not remain too many - -
Mentions keeps how many inheritances to the child the topic,baby gift ideas, in the middle school teaching clear elder sister thought that must remain to the child some, but does not need to be too many. If I am Bill , Gates, believed that my family member already food and clothing without cause for grief, the wealth is only a digital concept, this concept had proven my ability and the achievement, have nothing to do with my next generation's achievement. Their road wants to go. If lets the children lie down above the wealth sleeps, instead has harmed the child. However this is others rich and powerful people's perfect condition! Regarding our China's common people, must keep some qualifications to the child only then the line.
Mr. Xu thought: Each nationality's culture and the national condition are different, China was still in now the development, the social security system has not consummated may let us not need to the descendant to keep the family property the situation, moreover China's culture takes the dear ones very much, therefore I will consider that will keep a property to give the children suitably. However I thought that should let the children understand, keeps the family property makes parents' duty, I not for the children, but in wealth to oneself or other people too harsh, children's future should by them create, but cannot let them regards as parents' thing oneself has, will remain a lot does not represent certainly will let the descendant be happy.
Modernist school: 18 years old expel the son the main house gate - -
However along with society's development, more and more young parents started to have let the child independent idea as soon as possible. In media work's Mr. Liang planned that lets the son start from 18 years old to depend on own life. Mr. Liang thought that this to the child is the very good exercise, because after all parents impossible with child for a lifetime. Especially regarding the boy, supports oneself more early is better. The later road lets him go, I will not keep any money again to him.
Is engaged in Miss Zheng who teaches to work early to indicate: Child's growth is best depends on them, I thought what is most precious is trains the children to have a perfect personality since childhood, the straight words and deeds, this is for them the greatest wealth.
I graduates after the university no longer asked that the parents took one cent money. Already had 8 month pregnancies, Haizhu District's Ms. Wang had said. Although the present house price is high, expends expensively, what but doesn't everybody's condition equally have to be possible to complain. Since I am depending on the room which own loans diligently buys, I hoped that my child can also compete together with his same generation of person, does well own Chinese acre three point places, like this can train him to take an independent social individual consciousness. But is not stands on parents' shoulder.
Expert advice
Support child, but do not take care of all
Actually should the guardian pay how many for the child? Day UK parent-child center expert Liu Zhigang believed that the guardian should support child's growth, but do not attempt for the child to take care of all, regardless of being on the material or the spirit.
The Bill , Gates behavior really has its special background, in children's life, the education, goes see a doctor and so on right comparisons to have in the safeguard situation, the guardian is quite only then easy to have this noble behavior. Now although our country many families already marched into well-off, but regarding the majority families, but also needs makes many effort for child's survival and the development basic physical conditions. In this case discusses the inheritance, is as if a little far. The foreigner can do matter we certainly must not necessarily study, but Bill , Gates and the overseas guardian has the mothering idea is actually worth China's guardians referring. Liu Zhigang thought: Creates the good development condition for the child indeed is the manner parents' responsibility, but true is responsible possibly purely to create the wealth to be more difficult. Regarding the child, the guardian should the completely biggest responsibility raises his independent ability, if takes care of all, child's future without knowing where to begin mentioned.
Actually to keep what to the child?
We hoped that has two permanent inheritances to be able to leave us the child, one is a root, another is a wing. Is wife and children Huo Ding , Carter to explain itself like this famous regarding the inheritance view. The root is a person's disposition and the quality; The wing represented him to adapt the world survivability. The child first should have the positive upward personality, like this only then Cheng Qiwei health person's basis; But industrious, brave and bears frustrates the nature to be possible to help him to lead the way courageously on the life path. The psychologist thanks the glory to believe that only then these are the guardian should the most precious wealth which stays behind to the child.
The investigation indicated that the high independence,kids clothing, the high automatic rhythmicity is the successful public figure's dominant character, at this time the money and easy and comfortable possibly becomes the resistance which the child leads the way, but sometimes totteringly goes forward can an achievement genuine person.
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